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Affirming Books About Homosexuality and Links to Sites of Interest
Updated February 14, 2000  (click here for a printer friendly PDF version)

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This list is a compilation from several sources by the More Light Committee of the First Presbyterian Church, Palo Alto.  

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More Light Presbyterians are dedicated to opening the church's doors to Lesbians, Gay Men, and Bisexuals who are often discriminated against in society at large and in houses of worship.  This booklist is by no means complete and we welcome advice on new books to add, or books that should be deleted.  Contact us with suggestions!

Use these quick links to access the list for your topic of choice: 

Catalogs of books concerning Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual themes can be ordered from the following publishers: Haworth Press,   Alyson Publications,  and Chi Rho Press.

Many books listed in the following pages can be purchased from the following stores (phone orders may be accepted): 

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 BIBLICAL/THEOLOGICAL TOPICS 

Agony In The Garden - The Story of a Gay Minister 
Howard Hannon / OutWrite Publishing 1996
"A must read for those who resist the idea that sexuality and spirituality have any connection with each other.  This book chronicles an unprecedented journey of faith through the wilderness of the church's oppressive and exclusive theology to new understandings of God, Jesus, Crucifixion, and Redemption."  Save 20% at Amazon!

Between Two Gardens - Reflections on Sexuality and Religious Experience 
James B. Nelson, Pilgrim Press NY,  1983  Save 20% at Amazon!

Biblical Ethics and Homosexuality - Listening To Scripture
Edited By:  Robert L. Brawley   Westminster John Knox Press 1996  
"This book offers a challenge to the Church to give heed to the multiplicity of voices that are engaged in biblically responsible and constructive debates about the volatile issues regarding sexual behavior."  Save 20% at Amazon!

Called Out - The Voices and Gifts of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgendered Presbyterians  Chi Ro Press 1995 Edited by:  Jane Adams Spahr, Katheryn Poethig, Selisse Berry, and Melinda V. McLain 
"With anguish, pain, and courage the women and men in Called Out tell a powerful and moving story." 

Called Out With - Stories of Solidarity  Westminster John Knox Press 1997 Sylvia Thorson-Smith (Editor), Johanna Van Wijk-Bos (Editor), Norm Pott, Jon L. Berquist  
"This is a wonderful book from the straight-allied point of view to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered ordination rights in the Presbyterian Church (USA). It is meant to be a companion piece to an earlier book published by Chi Rho Press entitled Called OUT: The Voices and Gifts of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered Presbyterians, edited by Rev. Dr.Jane Adams Spahr." 
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Christianity:  Social Tolerance and Homosexuality (Gay People in Western Europe from the Beginning of the Christian Era to the Fourteenth Century)
John Boswell, The University of Chicago Press  1981  
John Boswell's highly acclaimed study of the history of attitudes toward homosexuality in the Christian West challenges received opinion and our own preconceptions about the Church's past relationship to its gay members, among whom were priests, bishops and even canonized saints. The historical breadth of Boswell's research (from the Greeks to Aquinas) and the variety of sources consulted (legal, literary, theological, artistic, and scientific) make this one of the most extensive treatments of any single aspect of Western social history. The product of ten years of research and analysis of records in a dozen languages, this book opens up a new area of historical inquiry and helps elucidate the origins and operations of intolerance as a social force. Save 20% at Amazon!

The Church and the Homosexual 
John J. McNeill,  Boston Press MA,  1993
Father McNeill's outstanding work, which convincingly establishes that the Bible does not condemn homosexuality, has brought comfort to thousands of gay and lesbian Christians since its original publication in 1976. In this fourth edition, the author calls on the Vatican to make a public act of repentance for its homophobia. "Blessed be that John McNeill's courageous classic is available again.  Save 20% at Amazon!

The Church and Homosexuality - Report on the United Presbyterian Task Force on to Study Homosexuality - Byron Schafer, United Presbyterian Church, USA  PCUSA Rm. 1201  475 Riverside Drive,  NY NY  10115

COME HOME! Reclaiming Spirituality and Community as Gay Men and Lesbians - by Chris Glaser - Chi Rho Press - Second Edition, August 1998 - ISBN: 1888493143
A greatly expanded second edition of this very popular book, first published in 1990 by HarperCollins, Come Home! is one of Chris Glaser's best books. Now with the addition of five new chapters to its original 20 chapters, it is significantly expanded and improved. You will want to own this exciting new edition! Episcopal Bishop John Shelby Spong called the first edition "powerful, sensitive, and provocative. . . . Christians, gay and straight, need this book if we are to be the body of Christ." This is a brilliant and important book by perhaps the best known Gay Christian writer in the US today. Come Home's five sections include Welcoming God's Acceptance, Receiving Our Inheritance, Discerning Our Call, Making Our Witness, and Declaring Our Vision. Order this book from Amazon!

Coming Out To God - Prayers for Lesbians and Gay Men and their Families and Friends Chris Glaser, Westminster/John Knox Press KY,  1991 
"In this collection of sixty prayers . . . Chris Glaser opens new vistas to us in prayer, discipleship, and the relationship between spirituality and sexuality. . . . This book is a classic in devotional literature which one will return to again and again."--Merrill M. Follansbee, co-founder of the Sacramento chapter of Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays." Save 15% at Amazon!

Coming Out While Staying In
by Leanne McCall Tigert - United Church Press - 1996 
Tigert has started to open the door on Christian homosexuals and the oppression they face within their own churches. She brings the reader face to face with personal accounts of the struggles that lesbian and gay people go through in society, but more specifically in church. She challanges the logic behind the homophobia. She helps explain the phenomonon of "splitting" and the impact it has on those who are not white male heterosexuals. For those who of us who feel called by God to ordained ministry, but who hesitate to heed his call because of the overwhelming response of congregational segragation of our homosexual being, this is a book to relate to. Excelent! I eagerly await further books by Leanne McCall Tigert. Save 15% at Amazon!

Coming Out Within - Stages of Spiritual Awakening for Lesbians and Gay Men By Craig O'Neill and Kathleen Ritter - Harper San Francisco 1992 
A compassionate guide to spiritual and psychological health for lesbians and gay men... A parable of if the spiritual journey of all people, as they cope with loss of dreams and move toward an integrated self.  Save 15% at Amazon!

Congregations in Conflict - The Battle Over Homosexuality
By Keith Hartman - Rutgers University Press - 1997
The author says: "Just wanted to say that folks shouldn't be scared off by the academic press label. The book is actually written for a mainstream audience, and in particular for anyone who is in a church going through a conflict over gay and lesbian issues. The book looks at nine different communities of faith that went through such clashes, including a Methodist congregation that split along generational lines after their minister marched in support of gay rights, a Southern Baptist church that spent a year debating the ordination of a gay member, a Quaker meeting which decided to marry two women, and a racially-divided Catholic church that expelled its gay group in the name of "inclusiveness". I was able to watch these stories unfold over several years, and to interview people as they grappled with the issues and shifted their positions. I was particularly interested to find out what arguments and experiences actually caused people to change their mind about homosexuals, how different denominations handle conflict, and why some churches broke apart over the issue while others were able to work through it and remain a united community of faith."
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The Essential Guide to Lesbian and Gay Weddings 
Everything you need to plan your same sex wedding.  Tess Ayers and Paul Brown - Harper San Francisco, 1994    Save 15% at Amazon!   

Equal Rites - Lesbian and Gay Worship, Ceremonies, and Celebrations 
Kitteredge Cherry and Zalmon Sherwood, Westminster John Knox Press - 1996
"Equal Rites stands as a testament to our belief in the value of writing down the format and text for worship.  Written liturgy does more than serve the local community in which is used, it provides a record so that the spiritual insights of a specific community can be shared with people in other parts of the world and in future generations...."  Save 15% at Amazon!

An Evangelical Look at Homosexuality  
(A brief review of biblical teachings relating to homosexual persons and their participation in church, from an evangelical point of view affirming of gay persons.)  Rev. Dr. Ralph Blair,  Evangelicals Concerned 
Evangelicals Concerned  30 East 60th Street  NY NY 10022 

A Gay Debate  --  Homosexuality and the Biblical Text  --  The Song of Songs  --    Gays & Fundamentalism  --  Ancient Answers to Modern Day Gays  (1994/1995) 
Inexpensive scholarly publications by Dr. Paul R. Johnson 
Copies available from PO Box 2972 - Pomona, CA 91769 

Gay Soul - Finding the Heart of Gay Spirit and Nature
Photographs by Mark Thompson (16 writers, healers, teachers, and visionaries) 
Harper San Francisco  - 1996  
"This book should be read by any gay person interested in the deeper questions of life and death. No other book has gathered so many distinguished voices on the nature of gay soul and its revolutionary potential."  Save 20% at Amazon!

Gays Under Grace - A Gay Christian's Response to Homosexuality 
Maury Johnston, Winston-Derrick Publisher's, Inc.  1991
A reviewer says: "I have read this book about 2-3 times. Maury Johnston does a good job of dealing with the major biblical issues surrounding the subject of homosexuality and Christianity. He doesn't shy away from criticizing both the church and the gay community when necessary. The book is logical and relatively clear in its presentation. While it does help in dealing with scriptural questions and providing some moral direction, it is a bit lacking in emotional and practical areas. In spite of this, it is definitely one of the best books I've read on the subject. It should be more prominent. I read Gays Under Grace again every few years and would recommend it. All-in-all it is balanced and pretty comprehensive."
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The Good Book 
By Peter Gomes - William Morrow and Co. Publishers - 1998
"A riveting tour of this holy book with the guide both witty and wise.  Gomes blends the passion and the reason of a humanist to open the sacred even to the most secular and skeptical mind"  (The author is the "Preacher to Harvard University" and recently came out on 60 Minutes)
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Holy Homosexuals (The truth about being gay or lesbian and Christian) 
By Michael S. Piazza  -  Sources of Hope Publishing -  1994
The author says: "For over a decade I have pastored the world's largest lesbian and gay church. This book seeks to take seriously the many issues which gay Christians face. There are other books by scholars I respect which explore the Biblical issues with much greater academic rigor. I have tried to take the scripture seriously and tell stories about people who struggle with authentic issues of faith. Members of the Cathedral of Hope have found great joy in their journey. My hope is that this book will enhance the joy of your faith. Blessings, Mike Piazza"
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Homophobia, the Overlooked Sin  (Articles on pastoral responses to homophobia, its dynamics, and potential responses to same-gender relations.) 
Church and Society, 73.2 November - December  Edited by:  Esther Stine, New York Presbyterian Church USA 

Homosexuality and Christian Faith 
Edited By:  Walter Wink   Fortress Press 1999  ISBN 0-8006-3186-2 
"... Ideal for individual or group use, this unique resource presents short pieces from some of the nation's most preeminent church leaders - women and men, Protestant and Catholic, mainline and evangelical - who address the fundamental moral imperitives about homosexuality. Through personal testimony, factual clarification, and moral suasion, they invite the reader to open his or her heart to the Spirit, to Gospel values, and to full acceptance of gay and lesbian persons in the "family of God.""  Click here to buy it from Amazon at 20% off

Homosexuality and Religion
by Richard Hasbany - Haworth Press - 1990
Here is a comprehensive historical overview of the recent discussion in the Judeo-Christian religions regarding homosexuality. Breaking new ground in the scholarship about Judeo-Christian religion and homosexuality, this wide-ranging volume features insightful new perspectives on the relationship between the church and homosexuals. Aimed at scholars, religious professionals, counselors, and therapists, Homosexuality and Religion provides valuable information on both historical and contemporary religious thought and life and homosexuality. Some of the provocative topics include gay and lesbian clergy, psychological/pastoral counseling for lesbians and gay men, and the church and homophobia.
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Homosexuality in the Church - Both Sides of the Debate
by Jeffrey S. Siker - Westminster John Knox Press - 1994
"Outstanding authorities on scripture, tradition, reason, biology, ethics, and gendered experience discuss one of the most divisive debates in the church today: the place of homosexuals in the community of faith. The balanced treatment of the issues and the contrasting insights of the essays make this a valuable resource for reflection individually or in groups."
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Is the Homosexual My Neighbor? A Positive Christian Response
by Letha Dawson Scanzoni, Virginia Ramey Mollenkott
A reviewer says: "Overall, the book is informative, spiritually and mentally, about homosexuality. It shows that one's sexuality and one's walk with Christ need not be mutually exclusive, and in many cases, CANNOT be mutually exclusive. For homosexual christians, the book shows the unconditional love of Christ, regardless of sexuality. For non-homosexual christians, the book is an inspiration on how they should "love" all their brothers and sisters in christ, regardless of sexuality. (That is why I said this is a must for all christians, and I would recommend it on the book shelves at all churches, too)." Save 20% at Amazon

Jonathan Loved David - Homosexuality in Biblical Times 
(A review of scripture and its historical context in relation to homosexuality, including biblical models for same-gender relationships.) 
Tom Horner, Westminster Press  PA,  1978  (republished 1994) This book is not available at Amazon but seems to be at Barnes and Noble!

Living in Sin? A Bishop Rethinks Human Sexuality 
John Shelby Spong, Harper San Francisco,  1990 
"I call upon Christian leaders in all traditions to respond and act with intelligence rather than fear. If Christian leaders cannot do this, then all churches will discover that ignorance, no matter how sanctified with pious words, is still ignorance and the voice of the church will be ignored as irrelevant" - John Shelby Spong
Is celibacy the only moral alternative to marriage? Should the widowed be allowed to form intimate relationships without remarrying? Should the church receive homosexuals into its community and support committed gay and lesbian relationships? Should congregations publicly and liturgically witness and affirm divorces? Should the church's moral standards continue to be set by patriarchal males? Should women be consecrated bishops? Bishop Spong proposes a pastoral response based on scripture and history to the changing realities of the modern world. He calls for a moral vision to empower the church with inclusive teaching about equal, loving, nonexploitative relationships.
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The New Testament and Homosexuality 
Robin Scroggs, Fortress Press PA,  1984
An easy to read, outstanding resource on the New Testament texts concerning homosexuality, demonstrating through scholarship on Greek culture, Palestinian Jewish and Hellenistic Jewish cultures, and related word/textual study of Pauline usage of  the Greek language.  Save 20% at Amazon

Rescuing the Bible from Fundamentalism - A Bishop Rethinks the Meaning of Scripture - John Shelby Spong, Harper San Francisco,  1991
Now in paperback, the provocative national bestseller that issues a daring call for contemporary understanding of scripture. Outspoken and controversial, Bishop Spong brilliantly reclaims the Bible from the narrow-minded literalism that has been used to justify slavery, ban textbooks, deny the rights of gays and lesbians, subordinate women, and justify war and revenge. Save 20% at Amazon

Same-Sex Holy Unions in Premodern Europe 
John Boswell, Villard Books - 1994
Booklist says: "When Boswell published his Christianity, Social Tolerance, and Homosexuality in 1980, he touched off a firestorm among antigay Christian and gay polemicists that rages to this day. He contended there was great tolerance and even acceptance of the unions of same-sex couples in premodern Europe. Indeed, actual rituals uniting such couples with the Christian church's blessing exist in the documentary record. In this long-gestated companion to his controversial landmark study, Boswell produces those rituals in translation, argues for how he has translated them, summarizes the histories of both heterosexual matrimony and same-sex unions in the Greco-Roman world, presents the views of early Christianity on heterosexual and same-sex couplings, traces the development of nuptial offices in the church, compares heterosexual and same-sex ceremonies of union, and discusses the checkered history of tolerance for same-sex unions during the Middle Ages. Throughout his presentation, three qualities predominate: lucidity in the writing; scrupulous scholarly documentation of factual statements and propositions (on many pages, more space is taken up by footnotes than main text); and great caution in distinguishing the sexual expectations of two-person relationships in ancient times from those presumed today--preoccupation with sex is very much a modern phenomenon. Although a rare book for the public library, it may, like its predecessor, be a vital one."   Buy it from Amazon at 20% off

Taking a Chance on God - Liberating theology for gays, lesbians, and their lovers, friends, and families - 2nd Edition  John McNeill, Beacon Press Boston  1996 
A reviewer says "I am a gay ordained minister of the gospel, and this book helped me accept my homosexuality. It is suberbly written and researched. A must for anyone coming out, and a definite must for any minsiter workign with the gay community. God bless the author." Save 20% at Amazon!

Twice Blessed - On Being Lesbian or Gay and Jewish  
Edited by:  Christie Balka and Andy Rose, Beacon Press Boston - 1991
In Twice Blessed, Christie Balka and Andy Rose have assembled a brave, eclectic mix of contributors, including Rebecca Alpert (Like Bread on the Seder Plate) and Evelyn Torton Beck (Nice Jewish Girls: A Lesbian Anthology), who write with authority, wit, and candor as they negotiate the gap between religious observance and sexual independence. The essays address everything from growing up in a yeshiva to finding a new Judaism-based theology of gay sexuality, from the search for Jewish gay role models to Jewish marital commitment ceremonies. This is a necessary book, not only for Jews who live their sexuality in silence, or gays and lesbians who long to reclaim their Jewish upbringing, but for family members, lovers, and friends of those who struggle to unite both worlds and to discover "the blessing of affirming both our Jewish and our lesbian and gay identities, and to living our lives based on the wisdom of two cultures." Save 15% at Amazon!

Uncommon Calling - A Gay Man's Struggle to Serve the Church 
Chris Glaser, Harper and Row,  Publishers  NY,  1993
Gay Christians will recognize elements of their own stories in Glaser's narrative. And the whole church may discover its own uncommon calling to fully welcome gays into the family of fatih. Save 15% at Amazon!

What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality 
John S. Spong, Daniel A. Helminiak, Alamo Square Press 1995 
"Recent findings by top scholars offer a radical new view." 
"Daniel Helminiak has written a much needed book.  He has carefully studied the recent scholarly literature on the Bible and Homosexuality and makes his results available here to a wide audience in an accessible form.  The book will help any reasonably open and attentive reader see that the Bible says something quite different on this subject from what is often claimed."  Buy from Amazon!

Religion Is a Queer Thing : A Guide to the Christian Faith for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered Persons
by Elizabeth Stuart, Andy Braunston, Malcolm Edwards, John McMahon (Contributor), Tim Morrison (Contributor)
This book makes queer theology available and accessible to a general audience and encourages the reader to become part of the ongoing development of this theology. It is aimed primarily at queer people who are new to Christianity or those who are interested in reflecting upon their Christian faith from a queer perspective. It is a study guide which can be used by groups and by individuals, and contains exercises and liturgies as well as explanations of queer theology. Subjects covered include the Bible, salvation, Christ, body theology, God, the Church, death and ethics. Buy from Amazon!

OTHER BIBLIOGRAPHIES

Here is a list and links to other bibliographies of interest to Lesbians, Gay men, Bisexuals, those who are transgendered, and all of our friends!

ORGANIZATIONS 

Association of Welcoming and Affirming Baptists
Web: http://members.aol.com/wabaptists

Gay, Lesbian, and Affirming Disciples Alliance (Disciples of Christ)
Web: http://www.sacredplaces.com/glad

Gays for God
Web: http://www.gaysforgod.org/index.htm

Lutherans Concerned
Web: http://www.lcna.org

More Light Presbyterians
Email: info@mlp.org  Web: www.mlp.org

Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (P-FLAG) 
Email: info@pflag.org  Web:  www.pflag.org 

Reconciling Congregation Program - United Methodist Church
Web: www.rcp.org

United Church of Christ Open and Affirming Program
Web: http://www.coalition.simplenet.com/ona/onaindex.html

Unitarian Universalists for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Concerns Web: http://www.qrd.org/qrd/www/orgs/uua/uu-interweave.html

RELIGIOUS JOURNALS 

Open Hands - Resources for Ministries Affirming the Diversity of Human Sexuality  Open Hands is a resource for congregations and individuals seeking to be in ministry with lesbian, bisexual, and gay persons.  Each issue focuses on a specific area of concern within the church.  It is published quarterly by the Reconciling Congregation Program, Inc. (United Methodist) in conjunction with the More Light Churches Network (Presbyterian), Open and Affirming (United Church of Christ), and Reconciled in Christ (Lutheran) Programs.  Each of these programs is a national network of local churches that publicly affirm their ministry with the whole family of God and welcome lesbian and gay persons, and their families, into their community of faith.  These four programs, along with Open and Affirming (Disciples of Christ), Welcoming (Unitarian Universalist), Supportive Congregations (Brethren / Mennonite), and Welcoming and Affirming (American Baptist) programs offer hope that the church can be a reconciled community.  Subscriptions are $24.00 a year.  Send check to:  Open Hands - 3801 N. Keeler Avenue - Chicago, IL  60641   /  Phone (312) 736-5526  Fax (312) 736-5475 

Second Stone - A national ecumenical news journal for all who seek understanding  of and justice for Gays and Lesbians in Church and Society.  Subscription is $15.00 for one year.  Send check to: 

Second Stone - P.O. Box 8340 - New Orleans, LA 70182 

HOW TO FIND GAY RESOURCES ANYWHERE IN THE COUNTRY

Most phone books include a section on Gay and Lesbian organizations under the headings "GAY" or "LESBIAN" or "HOMOSEXUAL."   Look up local organizations this way, or call one of  the Different Light bookstores in New York or San Francisco, or West Hollywood (CA), tell them where you live, and ask them to look up the nearest hot line phone number in their copy of  the Gay Yellow Pages.  Also, check out Web Search engines like Yahoo and Lycos!